tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post8484347747182761899..comments2024-03-05T14:07:28.062-08:00Comments on Ask Sister Mary Martha: E FreezingSister Mary Marthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00580244097177195453noreply@blogger.comBlogger23125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-75741130649515888552009-12-07T06:11:04.305-08:002009-12-07T06:11:04.305-08:00My darlings asked what the tooth fairy does with t...My darlings asked what the tooth fairy does with their teeth!<br /><br />So then of course we had to remember back, way back, to our childhoods for the answer. I remembered a storybook of the Toothfairy and her castle. She hand selects the best teeth for the castle and uses cavity teeth for the path... Oh and to explain why Jody at school gets $5 bucks a tooth and they only get $1, well the Toothfairy doesn't carry cash, so the parents have to leave it out for her.<br /><br />I think that St. Appolonia doll is darling. Especially since that was my grandma's confirmation name. I learned about that when the artist formerlly known as Prince made Purple Rain.<br /><br />Now the darlings are older, I've borrowed an idea from a friend. When a child loses a tooth, they get to pick the Ice Cream flavor out for the family. That is much more straight forward, avoids nonsense and they're rewarded for being a 'big boy' or 'big girl'.<br /><br />Oh, well, I'm much more happy with 'splaining St. Nick... It's closer to the truth. "How can Santa get into the house when we don't have a chimney?" <br /><br />"Well, Saints who live in heaven..." you know where this is going.Lolahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07874681310775395586noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-65315603393843274422009-11-19T15:30:23.543-08:002009-11-19T15:30:23.543-08:00I have never eaten fish on Friday because I don...I have never eaten fish on Friday because I don't like it, except for tuna salad. The family just enjoys a vegetarian meal. <br /><br />I'm not sure that meat is the issue. I wonder if any food would be wrong if it was a luxury favourite? Eating caviare on a Friday would probably be wrong and in comparison, meat loaf and beans might be OK if it was a plain and simple version. <br /><br />I think the idea is to 'live' the difference that Good Friday made, and to remember it in a special way on a Friday. Its a good spiritual habit.Suehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11595455669567650259noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-73119927014682011692009-11-19T15:22:50.865-08:002009-11-19T15:22:50.865-08:00KimK mentioned Scott Hahn. I've heard him spe...KimK mentioned Scott Hahn. I've heard him speak in the UK, and have read several of his books. He is a Prof at the Franciscan University of Steubenville. He does a free online Scripture course. He has a very interesting conversion story, which can be read here http://www.catholiceducation.org/articles/apologetics/ap0088.html<br /><br />The other resource I'd like to suggest is David MacDonald's site. He is a young musician who often plays in non Catholic churches and over time he has been asked so many questions about his Catholic faith that he put together a website to explain Catholic answers to protestant questions. Some don't believe it is possible for a Catholic to be a Christian at all. He has had the help of some priests and bishops and I believe he is now trying a Vocation. <br />http://www.davidmacd.com/catholic/<br /><br />Hope this helps.Suehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11595455669567650259noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-48641083707798725502009-11-19T08:19:45.180-08:002009-11-19T08:19:45.180-08:00Illinois Mom,
I don't know if it is the prac...Illinois Mom, <br /><br />I don't know if it is the practice in any churches nowadays, but at one time some of the Protestant churches (and perhaps RC, but I've never heard of it) charged for pews. I don't know if ALL pews were charged for, but there were reserved family pews and 'boxes'. We can see them in some of the historical churchesJPhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08433061807436268115noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-22498125443345586322009-11-15T21:34:18.035-08:002009-11-15T21:34:18.035-08:00Sister, my daughter has asked for a patron saint m...Sister, my daughter has asked for a patron saint medal for figure skating. Could you please help me find one? Thanks.<br /><br />Mary BAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-83087827763871018112009-11-15T09:33:57.668-08:002009-11-15T09:33:57.668-08:00Hi Sister, I wanted to add a comment to the excell...Hi Sister, I wanted to add a comment to the excellent post by the anonymous homeschooler above. I have eight, ranging from 6 to 24, and my motto has been, if my children reject their faith,they'll know what it is their rejecting, unlike my own post-Vatican II experience. I believe my incessant apologetics training, using Laura Berquist's excellent high school religion courses, has given my children more opportunity to practice their faith than if they were in school. For example: they all participate in a homeschool physical education program,and have had the opportunity to explain what their scapulars mean and to answer questions raised by some of their fellow Protestant homeschoolers. One daughter dated a Protestant in high school, and actually debated Catholicism with her boyfriend's pastor at the request of the boyfriend's concerned parents--and did a wonderful job, I might add, using charity and courage in the face of intense and sometimes unfair questioning. This daughter has gone on to college and is involved in the prolife club and has had the opportunity to discuss her faith with someone who asked why she was praying before her meal in the dining area. My homeschooled high school sophomore son just returned from an overnight cross country meet (he runs with the local high school team) and was able to debate the existence of God with his hotel roommate. My oldest son was able to lead a college friend to convert to Catholicism. So, in my experience, intense apologetics training in a homeschool setting has been the best all around preparation for my children to take their faith to the world.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-58960443650484008792009-11-15T04:45:30.282-08:002009-11-15T04:45:30.282-08:00Hi Sr. MM would it be possible to have a search fe...Hi Sr. MM would it be possible to have a search feature on your page?<br />That way we can search for interesting stuff i came across before....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-66489591829937255542009-11-14T17:42:32.387-08:002009-11-14T17:42:32.387-08:00Sister, thank you for your answer about the patron...Sister, thank you for your answer about the patron saint of snowboarding! Zachary is thrilled to know that he can use Christopher as his confirmation name, and since his dad's name is also Christopher, it has double significance for him. (And he'd love to have a St. Christopher medal with a snowboarder on it...do you carry them?)drenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-47034222955484767642009-11-14T16:03:52.352-08:002009-11-14T16:03:52.352-08:00I'm a little curious -- are there any churches...I'm a little curious -- are there any churches where you actually pay for your pew? Although we tithe, it's not a requirement in order to participate in the Mass. And I'm pretty sure Protestant churches ask their members to support their church. Just curious.Illinois Momnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-81188723024631191392009-11-14T10:04:59.501-08:002009-11-14T10:04:59.501-08:00Sister,
Not on the topic of this post, but do you...Sister,<br /><br />Not on the topic of this post, but do you by chance know where I could find more information on Bl. Charlotte (or Carola) Lucas? I know she was martyred in the French Revolution, but haven't found much else. I only came across her in searching for names for our unborn daughter and wanted to know more. Thank you, and God bless!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16376858784972563684noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-87663525136860753292009-11-14T08:53:40.202-08:002009-11-14T08:53:40.202-08:00Dear Sister,
I like the fact that you at least app...Dear Sister,<br />I like the fact that you at least appreciate homeschooling. I homeschool my five children (Preschool - Sophomore). I have to say that your comment about homeschooling answers to the stereotype of homeschool families--that somehow they are "sheltered" and not out in the world. I believe that that is definitely not my children's experience, nor the experience of many of my Catholic homeschooling friends. <br /> My children have a wide range of activities outside the house/family. My oldest two participate in the Youth group at Church and a Boy Scout troop not associated with our parish. We have music lessons (not at home), cub scouts, one son was an apprentice at the local science museum, my two oldest have participated in "History Day" at the state level (My oldest was THIRD in the state in 2008 for his history documentary on Actium). I work hard at finding athletic oulets for the older boys. There are a lot of homeschool activities in this area, but, sometimes, it is "no Catholics need apply" here in the 'Bible Belt'. What better witness, as a Catholic, is there than to participate in such activities and demonstrate that Catholics indeed are Christians?<br /> My point is that there are Catholic Homeschooling families that work hard at making sure their children get a fine Catholic education, but don't shelter their children from the world. I know I try to, and I know many others in this area who, make sure that that education makes them ready and armed for the world outside the family. I, we, pray that they will be able to stand the 'slings and arrows' against their Faith. I pray every day that I am doing the right thing and that they will be able to live their faith in the world.<br /> Don't get me wrong sister. I am not upset with you. I'd just like to change the stereotype and let people know that not all homeschool families are like the ones they enjoy portraying in the media--sheltered and ignorant of the world outside their own house. <br /> I enjoy your blog very much. God bless you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-29794096295577138342009-11-13T18:42:17.416-08:002009-11-13T18:42:17.416-08:00Anon:
About St. Teresa - you are not alone. I don&...Anon:<br />About St. Teresa - you are not alone. I don't get it either, and it kind of bothers me, too. I understand that marital love is a foretaste of heaven, but chaste love is... chaste! IMHO, if you need sexual fulfillment, maybe you shouldn't be in a convent. If you are one of the few of whom Christ spoke when He said, "It is not everyone who can accept what I have said, but only those to whom it is granted. Let anyone accept this who can." (See Matthew 19:1-12)<br /><br />Now - I'm not saying St. Teresa of Avila shouldn't have been in a convent. I am saying that one shouldn't look for or expect to have the same type of mystical experiences she had. You enter religious life to give yourself to God, not for what's in it for you.Sister Mary Margarethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09033012870193990053noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-38422572211524732602009-11-13T13:50:43.165-08:002009-11-13T13:50:43.165-08:00re: "I have heard about God being everything...re: "I have heard about God being everything- Our Loving Father, Jesus our Loving savior...but I'm really confused about Jesus being our lover, especially for me as a woman. I have heard about St. Teresa of Avila's ecstasy and how it actually looks and sounds like a woman at the height of her sexual climax due to pure love of God. What exactly is this, and how does it work?"<br /><br />One of the most wonderful things about marriage is that it is a foretaste of Heaven. The ecstasies of the marital embrace, where two become one flesh, are a foretaste of our heavenly communion with God.Arkanabar T'verrick Ilarsadinhttp://arkanabar.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-44103814832254126982009-11-13T12:54:02.008-08:002009-11-13T12:54:02.008-08:00Anon, for good, rational, scripturally sound expla...Anon, for good, rational, scripturally sound explanations and defense of Catholic faith, look for Tim Staples and Scott Hahn. Both were once very anti-Catholic Protestants and both came to the Church after discovering the Truth of her teachings. Both are now very well-known Catholic apologists. I'd particularly recommend any of Scott Hahn's books (search Amazon) for clear, understandable "comebacks" (for lack of a better term) to anti-Catholic arguement on a variety of topics.KimKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04851703433362883900noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-59941115345448418312009-11-13T09:44:24.243-08:002009-11-13T09:44:24.243-08:00I would love to buy some of the St Apollolina doll...I would love to buy some of the St Apollolina dolls for my neices and nephews. Do you have a link?Janis Taylorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02758974052033690597noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-20772252479818896532009-11-13T09:44:04.529-08:002009-11-13T09:44:04.529-08:00Dear Sister
St. Isidore on your medal is St. Isido...Dear Sister<br />St. Isidore on your medal is St. Isidore the Farmer, a poor peasant born near Madrid around 1070: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Isidore_the_Farmer<br /><br />St. Isidore of Seville is the patron of the internet. He was a bishop for 30 years in the 600's. He is called the last scholar of the ancient world:<br />http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/St_isidore_of_seville<br /><br />I have medals of both, although the bishop is hard to find and both are regularly confused with each other.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-74906884583501346282009-11-13T07:58:58.971-08:002009-11-13T07:58:58.971-08:00SMM,
Great post. I especially appreciated your ad...SMM,<br />Great post. I especially appreciated your advice about arming ourselves with knowledge. Many devout Catholics think once they are confirmed weekly mass and confession have them covered. We need to be continuing to delve into God's word and church teaching. I have found the more I study and learn, the easier it is for me to explain those difficult questions. A child's faith, armed with church knowledge. That is a true gift for our Lord.Tamihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13545454885908647405noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-71017330033143438152009-11-13T07:29:05.187-08:002009-11-13T07:29:05.187-08:00I think E Free is Evangelical Free Churches, and i...I think E Free is Evangelical Free Churches, and it is an actual denomination. The "Free" refers to not having to pay for your pew at church. Like the Free Methodists. That has been my understanding, anyway.slimsdotterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13851592041787358791noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-20551823421057110062009-11-13T01:24:44.701-08:002009-11-13T01:24:44.701-08:00Dear Sister MM,
Why is a fish sandwich outside of...Dear Sister MM,<br /><br />Why is a fish sandwich outside of Lent a guilty pleasure? Shouldn't we thank God for the occasional small pleasure?Tracyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17638799349745874062noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-26275804423511144472009-11-12T18:47:39.500-08:002009-11-12T18:47:39.500-08:00Dear Sister Mary Martha...
I have a rather strange...Dear Sister Mary Martha...<br />I have a rather strange topic, but this is really bothering me. I have heard about God being everything- Our Loving Father, Jesus our Loving savior...but I'm really confused about Jesus being our lover, especially for me as a woman. I have heard about St. Teresa of Avila's ecstasy and how it actually looks and sounds like a woman at the height of her sexual climax due to pure love of God. What exactly is this, and how does it work? Also, have any other other saints had an experience like this?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-47877229569707818062009-11-12T17:42:18.086-08:002009-11-12T17:42:18.086-08:00Sister, great post, good insights re parenting for...Sister, great post, good insights re parenting for the long term! Mine are grown; it's interesting to watch them pass on to their children what was passed on to them -- and we pass on more than we think simply by how we choose to behave ourselves. <br /><br />Maggie, what does the "free" stand for? Obviously, I get the E! Like Sister, I never heard of E-Free.Elizabeth Mahlouhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00334700057953625321noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-29982958933907469382009-11-12T16:40:19.526-08:002009-11-12T16:40:19.526-08:00Here E-Frees means the Evangelical Churches that a...Here E-Frees means the Evangelical Churches that are not covered under any denomination, like Lutheran or Baptist. My son's soul isn't in jeopardy, he is very well educated in both his Bible and his religion. The question is how does he help his friend understand she has been led astray? How does he help her back to the true Church?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-65164336542424335922009-11-12T15:44:06.756-08:002009-11-12T15:44:06.756-08:00I believe E Free refers to Evangelical Catholic, w...I believe E Free refers to Evangelical Catholic, which was my denomination before I converted. I'm not sure if they have a specific "program" to undermine the Faith, but our college Bible study through the EFree church had quite a few lapsed Catholics in it.Maggiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09398904417243102605noreply@blogger.com