tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post3217822349164887570..comments2024-03-05T14:07:28.062-08:00Comments on Ask Sister Mary Martha: I Stand CorrectedSister Mary Marthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00580244097177195453noreply@blogger.comBlogger25125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-90607922390669104922007-05-02T12:13:00.000-07:002007-05-02T12:13:00.000-07:00Sister,Thank you so much for this post. Too often...Sister,<BR/>Thank you so much for this post. Too often sisters and priests and brothers are put on a pedestal, and any error they make is judged harshly. You are human. Having a vocation as a sister does not change that. Our Lord put humans in charge of His church. He knew then and knows now how imperfect we are. <BR/><BR/>ChristineChristinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18237834450801185728noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-88337164404958732792007-04-27T18:45:00.000-07:002007-04-27T18:45:00.000-07:00ouch.ouch.Etrangèrehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14810293333512260271noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-68119501102750781462007-04-27T10:18:00.000-07:002007-04-27T10:18:00.000-07:00...walk into a bar......walk into a bar...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-11829420713049940262007-04-26T16:04:00.000-07:002007-04-26T16:04:00.000-07:00Two angelsTwo angelsAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-60176706789881535652007-04-26T14:54:00.000-07:002007-04-26T14:54:00.000-07:00Sister, I have to say that I love how you found an...Sister, I have to say that I love how you found and continued your vocation! Too many good hearted people are trusting in their emotional experience to show them the path God has planed, and emotions change like the wind. I know several ladies who are all faithful, fun, energetic, loving, and excited about the faith and they went and enter orders... and then found out that they weren't called there. It's a mess. What happened? I don't think they used that wonderful other organ (besides the heart) He gave us... a brain. We must think about things and analyze them as well as discern what our hearts think. If we're called to go, we've got to go no matter what we feel like and just pray like mad. No wonder you have persevered in your vocation so long! It's obvious that you rely on your wonderfully sound common sense! I mean no disrespect, it sounds like perhaps you didn't have much of a choice, but you realize what vows mean and were open to grow from it. I have such respect for you! And it gives me hope for my own vocation as well! Many thanks for sharing your story!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-67358108938176563062007-04-26T07:49:00.000-07:002007-04-26T07:49:00.000-07:00My husband's aunt didn't want to be a wife or a nu...My husband's aunt didn't want to be a wife or a nun so she joined the army and became a nurse. She served in WWII, Korea and Vietnam. Her dad had a fit as the first two choices were the only ones acceptable to him. A friend of mine became a nun out of pressure from the college priest and the thrill it gave her parents. Didn't last tho, she left the order, drove a truck for her brother then married, three kids, and works at her local Catholic school.<BR/>Every nun I've ever met has a great sense of humor. But I never attended Catholic school.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-39190459210328432222007-04-25T19:35:00.000-07:002007-04-25T19:35:00.000-07:00Called by God or not called at all, it doesn't see...Called by God or not called at all, it doesn't seem to matter. The religious life has a profound effect on those who make it a vocation... (like an arranged marriage where the partners actually end up loving each other, or a lapidary where the stone tumbles until it's polished.) God can work with any raw material. Anonymous seems to be (yet again) sporting their ignorance/arrogance on shoes they've never walked in.Claire Joyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10772846937495834349noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-11213121152050604302007-04-25T16:14:00.000-07:002007-04-25T16:14:00.000-07:00anonymous, I'm sorry if the truth offends you. I w...anonymous, I'm sorry if the truth offends you. I was making a point about teaching, not about my life with Jesus. I did mention my identification with St. Augustine in that manner, sorry that didn't cut it for you.<BR/><BR/>Things have changed so much for the better. What's that book called, "The Rules"? The theory that it is always the man who chooses his bride not the other way around. Really upset people. True in my case....so to speak.Sister Mary Marthahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00580244097177195453noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-31067606402521469702007-04-25T15:53:00.000-07:002007-04-25T15:53:00.000-07:00For once I'm in near-perfect agreement with everyt...For once I'm in near-perfect agreement with everything Sister Mary Alternative wrote. So much so that I won't even nit-pick at the small points on which we disagree.<BR/><BR/>You've made my day, SMA. I love being able to agree with people. :-)Kasiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12252276821520357094noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-63539590095224368122007-04-25T15:20:00.000-07:002007-04-25T15:20:00.000-07:00"sister" mm has pointed out two interesting facts ..."sister" mm has pointed out two interesting facts that i think most people don't realize. a lot of nuns didn't have a vocation to the religious life. it was one of very limited options for women until the 1960's/70's. also, a lot of large families would "tithe" one or more of their 10-12 children to the church, so the children would hear, "bobby, you're going to be a priest when you grow up. mary, you'll be a nun." and that was sometimes that.<BR/>the religious life is so hard (even harder then) that if you don't have a vocation, it makes you a really angry 5th grade math teacher.<BR/>the no teacher training is also a revelation. i've taught w/o any training (by the skin of my teeth) and i've taught after attaining a master's degree in ed. it's really, really hard. i'm a career changer and this is the hardest job i've ever had. <BR/>so, imagine a nun with little or no vocation (or, it doesn't "grow" on the religious) and no training or possibilty to confer w/other teachers/nuns. bummer. i'm glad things are different. i'm so glad that men and women who are entering monastic orders today have a true calling.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05699894178453403507noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-3538269548614453232007-04-25T13:43:00.000-07:002007-04-25T13:43:00.000-07:00SMM: I think you finally gave yourself away. NOT...SMM: I think you finally gave yourself away. NOT A REAL NUN. No genuine sister would speak of her vocation in such a denigrating manner....and without even mentioning Christ. The jig's up.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-79147372961883059312007-04-25T11:26:00.000-07:002007-04-25T11:26:00.000-07:00In Acts Judas buys a field with his 30 pieces of s...In Acts Judas buys a field with his 30 pieces of silver and then trips or something and falls down and his intestines spill out.<BR/><BR/>I'll talk more about the Judas issue tomorrow.<BR/><BR/>Three angels, two angels, no angels. How many angels were at the tomb when Mary Magdelene arrived.Sister Mary Marthahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00580244097177195453noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-46309886556304278662007-04-25T10:26:00.000-07:002007-04-25T10:26:00.000-07:00Who cares of SMM is a real nun or not. I'm gratefu...Who cares of SMM is a real nun or not. I'm grateful to have a place to clear up some questions I have. Thanks to all who answered the last one. Yesterday I found myself in the middle of a 'discussion' not of my making. I was stuck in the hair dressers chair.<BR/>Last summer, in the next town-not my hometown and not my parish-a local young man asked to be married in the church there before he left for Iraq. He was not Catholic nor was his bride. The priest gave them permission to use the church- no minister or priest official was present- the legal business was done by a family member who got his clergy lisence on line. The community of Catholics are still in an uproar over it.<BR/>I thought all people are either Catholic or potential Catholics thus the young man was in his home diocese and free to marry there. Mostly I thought it was over and done with nearly a year ago, the young man just got home after being permenently disabled by a sniper shot so let it go....IF I find myself stuck in this conversation again what was right? Is the church building open for non-Catholic weddings?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-17119944900519925822007-04-25T09:44:00.000-07:002007-04-25T09:44:00.000-07:00This whole discussion makes me think that being a ...This whole discussion makes me think that being a saint must be an awful burden. Many times they go through something crappy here on earth and then after they die andare deemed saints then they are tied to this earth for however long earth lasts, helping people who they never met solve problems both large and small. On the other hand, some plain old shlub who dies and goes to Heaven just gets to do whatever he or she does that makes Heaven heavenly, without being interrupted by the constant pleadings of those still on earth. Why would one want to be a saint when it equates to having to stay inside and do homework while all your friends get to go outside and play?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-86270281539882486172007-04-25T09:23:00.000-07:002007-04-25T09:23:00.000-07:00What catechism did you read in the 70's? This new...What catechism did you read in the 70's? This new universal one wasn't published until the 90's. Before that there was the old Baltimore, which would have been out of date by then. Maybe Fr. Hardon's Catechism? You've got me curious.Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16120027058653022897noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-72561809857356088722007-04-25T08:48:00.000-07:002007-04-25T08:48:00.000-07:00kat1945- When we pray to the saints we are having...kat1945- When we pray to the saints we are having a conversation with them, asking them to pray along with us, to take our petitions to God. So saying the "Dear Saint Anthony, please come around, something is lost and has got to be found" prayer, or whatever prayer composed and said 'to' a saint, it is a request to the saint to help us. How do they help us? They go to God. Whether it is understood by the person praying or not, those prayers are seeking the intercession of the saint, on our behalf. When these prayers are taught it ought to be explained correctly, it may not have been, or that may have been the moment the child had some distraction and missed it, but it should be told over and over again. Perhaps sister can talk about the word 'veneration' and things like Dulia and hyperdulia, etc in a future posting.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-33425140128448798522007-04-25T08:10:00.000-07:002007-04-25T08:10:00.000-07:00Hey, hey, hey !!! Don't throw out the baby with th...Hey, hey, hey !!! Don't throw out the baby with the bathwater. The grooves on St Peter's cheeks, Veronica and her cloth, St George killing the dragon, St Patrick casting out the snakes, the literal stories in Genesis, all the Golden Legend ... What in heaven's name are you going to teach 6 year old children? The collected works of Karl Rahner? <BR/><BR/>Limbo always was a way of saying "we don't know, but God does something special" or "it's a special place for unbaptised children, where they can be happy like little babies, but they don't grow up and see God". And the ITC is just a talking shop, although quite a distinguished one. <BR/><BR/>I pay tribute to all the wonderful and not so wonderful nuns who taught me between the ages of 5 and 11, devotion to St Philomena and all.Londiniensishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15310965192661014230noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-63027119390156926222007-04-25T07:57:00.000-07:002007-04-25T07:57:00.000-07:00And it was the relics of St. Augustine.And it was the relics of St. Augustine.Kasiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12252276821520357094noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-74543068333757170892007-04-25T07:42:00.000-07:002007-04-25T07:42:00.000-07:00Sister Mary Martha,Thank you for your posting. Yo...Sister Mary Martha,<BR/>Thank you for your posting. Your words give me a sense of peace regarding some unhappy events that occurred in Catholic school. Now, don't get me wrong, for the most part I LOVED my school and most of my teachers but I did have one horrible year - 4th grade. Your explanation that "no one ever taught us how to teach" really hit home. I realize now that perhaps my bad experiences were due to not knowing HOW to teach. <BR/>Thank you,<BR/>JenniferMrs Marcoshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16943662846800240851noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-16657129282564781592007-04-25T07:13:00.000-07:002007-04-25T07:13:00.000-07:00Is it possible that a real Sister does not know th...Is it possible that a real Sister does not know that Judas' hanging himself is clearly indicated in the gospel? Could a real Sister be this unfamiliar with something found in one of the most important and well known stories in the scriptures?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-71009767719405833772007-04-25T06:41:00.001-07:002007-04-25T06:41:00.001-07:00Also, Sister, you and the nuns may have gotten the...Also, Sister, you and the nuns may have gotten the Judas thing from the Gospel of Matthew (ch. 27):<BR/><BR/><I>3 <BR/>Then Judas, his betrayer, seeing that Jesus had been condemned, deeply regretted what he had done. He returned the thirty pieces of silver 3 to the chief priests and elders, <BR/>4 <BR/>saying, "I have sinned in betraying innocent blood." They said, "What is that to us? Look to it yourself." <BR/>5 <BR/>4 Flinging the money into the temple, he departed and went off and hanged himself. </I>Kasiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12252276821520357094noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-67856366307078566472007-04-25T06:41:00.000-07:002007-04-25T06:41:00.000-07:00Sister,I recently had a friend who was out to dinn...Sister,<BR/>I recently had a friend who was out to dinner and had another friend tell her that Catholics aren't Christians, and another friend with them (who is Catholic) agreed!<BR/>In discussion, it came out that another friend of ours has even heard this from "theologically trained" Catholics.<BR/>Could you please explain to me (and everyone) why someone who is Catholic would claim that they aren't Christian?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-61961064585015598942007-04-25T06:38:00.000-07:002007-04-25T06:38:00.000-07:00Well - although we know from your post that priest...Well - although we know from your post that priests and nuns are fallible, in case we didn't know that before - I've heard the St. Peter bit from my priest. Specifically he was talking about the difference between guilt and shame, and how even once one's guilt is expunged through Reconciliation/Penance/Whatever-It's-Being-Called-Now, one can still have <I>shame</I> for past actions. He then went on to say that <B>the tradition is that</B> Peter wept so often in shame for having denied Christ that he had furrows on his cheeks. Now, he doesn't state it as a certain fact, but he does tell it. And I've always thought he was pretty credible (or I probably wouldn't have ended up converting - after all, if the guy who's teaching me is making things up left and right, who's to say any of this is true?).Kasiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12252276821520357094noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-77641409289179938762007-04-25T06:31:00.000-07:002007-04-25T06:31:00.000-07:00While you are on the subject of correcting/explain...While you are on the subject of correcting/explaining things, I want to bring up the fact that I was taught (Catholic School kindergarten through high school in the 1950's and 1960's) to "pray to" St Jude for hopeless causes, St Anthony to help me find things I'd lost, St. Joseph to sell my house, etc. Now I see you don't think Catholics pray to saints for help, but only for them to pray for us. Aren't people also "praying to" the late pope to help further his cause for cannonization? Does he even care if he's cannonized? After all, he is or is not in heaven, no matter what declaration is made by the church! One more thing. I remember hearing that people who ate meat on Friday are in hell, because the sin was really disobedience. Since when is disobedience a mortal sin? (If it is, I am in BIG trouble!)<BR/><BR/>I love your blog and have learned a lot.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-47288285938657310702007-04-25T06:25:00.000-07:002007-04-25T06:25:00.000-07:00Thank you Sister for this post. It is a great rem...Thank you Sister for this post. It is a great reminder that nuns (and priests) are just people, no smarter, not more perfect nor necessarily more informed.<BR/>And thank you for what you give in all your posts. I love reading your humorous take on the Church and it's teaching. I learn a lot without realizing i'm back at school!ColleenDhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04273464471877389647noreply@blogger.com