tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post8227243788379324220..comments2024-03-05T14:07:28.062-08:00Comments on Ask Sister Mary Martha: Thank God It's SaturdaySister Mary Marthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00580244097177195453noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-64113715323265214602009-06-08T18:55:56.944-07:002009-06-08T18:55:56.944-07:00Thanks for the info. Appreciate it very much. In t...Thanks for the info. Appreciate it very much. In this gentleman's case, his wife wasn't there because of her own injuries so he wasn't with family. We stayed with him. Thanks again:>)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15238905633085051322noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-77445426672401783792009-06-08T13:48:03.538-07:002009-06-08T13:48:03.538-07:00distracted by shiny objects:
A Hail Mary is good....distracted by shiny objects:<br /><br />A Hail Mary is good. The best (other than Conditional Baptism for someone who is conscious and asks to be baptized) seems to be to say the Chaplet of Divine Mercy.<br /><br />Jesus told St. Faustina, "Encourage souls to say the Chaplet which I have given you. Whoever will recite it will receive great mercy at the hour of death. When they say this Chaplet in the presence of the dying, I will stand between My Father and the dying person, not as the just Judge but as the Merciful Savior. Priests will recommend it to sinners as their last hope of salvation. Even if there were a sinner most hardened, if he were to recite this Chaplet only once, he would receive grace from My infinite mercy. I desire to grant unimaginable graces to those souls who trust in My mercy. Through the Chaplet you will obtain everything, if what you ask for is compatible with My will."<br /><br />This was, of course, a private revelation, and the Chaplet of Divine Mercy is a personal devotion. However, the Church has approved St. Faustina's visions (I think that's the right way to put it), canonized her, named the Sunday after Easter Divine Mercy Sunday, and attached indulgences to the devotion, so in my opinion you can have every confidence in the Chaplet and in Our Lord's mercy for the dying person.<br /><br />The Chaplet takes about 10 minutes to say. I don't know how you will arrange to have 10 minutes in a busy ER, but maybe you can. And if there is family present and they know the Chaplet, they might appreciate being reminded of the importance os saying it.bill7txhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06583247635887386447noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-5539990026758536592009-06-08T07:33:18.818-07:002009-06-08T07:33:18.818-07:00Dear Sister M&M,
Due to a shortage of p...Dear Sister M&M, <br /> Due to a shortage of priests here in CinCity,we were unable to get hold of one to provide Sacrament of the Sick per the family's request to a dying patient. I did my best with "Hail Mary," but do you have any suggestions for a layperson to provide anything more?? I suspect that God is more interested in intent rather than any specific words, but I think that the familiar and "ceremonial"--for lack of the word I'm searching for--words can provide some comfort to the patient and family involved.<br />Any help is greatly appreciated. Our admissions are generally from trauma and head bleeds, so very sudden turns of events for families and very stressful for them to have to make sad and difficult decisions. We would like to provide as much comfort as we can, which quite truthfully feels very inadequate. Thanks for your time.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15238905633085051322noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-13496404464240983522009-06-07T12:24:41.541-07:002009-06-07T12:24:41.541-07:00Sister, I know pride is a sin but I added you to a...Sister, I know pride is a sin but I added you to an award list on my blog. I know you will accept it humbly.Pam @ Fripperyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08694536982173963267noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-16997203070768516312009-06-06T15:43:25.882-07:002009-06-06T15:43:25.882-07:00Burying the dead...
I sing in a choir. I conside...Burying the dead...<br /><br />I sing in a choir. I consider (in fact, a priest once told me this) that each time I sing at a funeral, I am doing my part to bury the dead.<br /><br />N'est-ce pas?JPhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08433061807436268115noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-26751615546644523942009-06-06T11:46:20.978-07:002009-06-06T11:46:20.978-07:00sister mary martha,
i saw some of your recent ans...sister mary martha,<br /><br />i saw some of your recent answers to questions regarding marriage and i have one to throw into the mix.<br /><br />My fiance is not from the U.S. and he married a woman at a justice of the peace here in the U.S. in order to get his greencard.<br /><br />They divorced 2 years later with his greencard in hand. Is this marriage still valid in the eyes of the church? Does he still need to seek the Decree of Nullity?<br /><br /><br />(he is not catholic but I am)<br /><br /><br />thank you sister, i LOVE your blog you are so insightful. <br /><br /><br />-MAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-29406291154608623712009-06-06T07:30:02.622-07:002009-06-06T07:30:02.622-07:00Some of the saints think their work isn't fini...Some of the saints think their work isn't finished even when they get to heaven. St. Therese (sp?) comes to mind.Dianehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05690348821757283659noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-46500326531140466402009-06-06T01:25:14.937-07:002009-06-06T01:25:14.937-07:00Dear Bill - I know *exactly* how you feel!
Pray l...Dear Bill - I know *exactly* how you feel!<br /><br />Pray lots! <br /><br />I'm not speaking here from a position of achievement, just to be clear. But the thing that turns all the dross (and you should see my drab life!) into gold and diamonds is charity, and that comes out of prayer (there's only so far we get by working at it, and only for so long). The one thing we can always do all the time no matter what is pray. As Dom Chapman said, "pray as you can, not as you can't". It's all St Therese did. And even the desert fathers say "yeah, fasting, yeah, but mostly - stick to whatever you're doing, mind your own business, remember your sins (Dear God, even my sins are drab and petty) and keep praying". I know exacly how you feel, Bill! <br /><br />Making a decision and sticking to it no matter what (within reason) is good - e.g. some part of the breviary, rosary, half an hour of scripture reading, holy hour three times a week. Confession quite frequently (because we do little sins all the time) and to the same guy, so he knows how crap you are. And Dom Benedict Baur's book <i>Frequent Confession</i>, and/or St Francis de Sales, Intro to the Devout Life. Dull everyday life is great because we have no delusions of grandeur! Dead good for humility. <br /><br />must nash, should be in library, God bless! <br /><br />ps As a dead French thelogian points out (<a rel="nofollow">Garrigou Lagrange</a>) the life of grace we have now is the *same* supernatural life as that we will have in heaven, just in a different way (with weaknesses and through a glass darkly etc). If anyone feels like looking at that link, the meat is all in Part I, the prologue and sub-parts I and II (up to the end of "The Seed of Eternal Life in Us", or maybe the "Consequence".)berenikehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16917803593444075354noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-45893770772773557072009-06-05T16:40:32.792-07:002009-06-05T16:40:32.792-07:00Sister, thank you for your reply. In my defense, I...Sister, thank you for your reply. In my defense, I actually do or have done many (maybe most, I'm not into inventories on Friday evening) of the things on your list. I don't think of them as anything heroic. They fall into the "useless servant" category -- they are only what we are expected to do. <br /><br />Also, I think there's nothing wrong with wanting to be a saint (canonized or not). Not that you said there is. It's just a little unusual. My concern is whether what I have done to date is getting me anywhere down the road to sainthood, at any level. And yes, I know it's not a done deal, and that it isn't over until it's over. <br /><br />Here's two thoughts that sparked my question. Some fluffy book years ago had a line in it that was the truest thing the author ever wrote in all his fluffy books: "Here's a test to know whether you've accomplished your mission in life: If you're still alive, you aren't finished yet." And something a saint (you probably know which one) said about God: "He's never satisfied with anything."<br /><br />Thank you again. I hope to see you one of these days, in a better place.bill7txhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06583247635887386447noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30512717.post-14474695843745141912009-06-05T14:07:24.207-07:002009-06-05T14:07:24.207-07:00I always considered 'bury the dead' to be ...I always considered 'bury the dead' to be a more open work: so I pray for the souls in purgatory and support those grieving by being present at funerals when appropriate(i mean I don't go to random funerals or anything) Perhaps I am too general in my "works" though?! Love the blog!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com