I believe I started our recent discussion by talking about Ordinary Time. At least I think I did, since I can't actually remember what happened that far back. I hope I never witness a crime, besides the fact that there would have been a crime committed and no one wants that, I would never remember what time I saw the robber leave the bank, or what day that was or what color his ski mask was.
But I digress.
We have to talk about one more thing in regard to the issue of what is and is not a mortal sin which is how actually ordinary things can fall under that category. I believe the discussion also began because the question was about mortal sin being almost impossible to commit.
So not true, as they say.
Here's where the difficulty lies: some things that are mortal sins aren't sins at all. So there are the easy ones that are mortal sins, the end period. Pornography, murder, missing Mass on Sunday, premarital sex, dealing illegal drugs. Easy to avoid, one would hope. Or if not easy, like missing Mass, as least cut and dried.
But there are some things that aren't sins until they are. It's not a sin to drink or gamble. It's not a sin to shop or watch television. But all those things could be mortal sins when done in excess. Excessive shopping is as destructive as gambling when gambling becomes an addiction. If all you do is watch television, you've crossed into sloth, a deadly sin.
I mentioned that one of my favorite things about the Catholic Church is the road map that is provided by being a one of the faithful. This includes a "Not To Do" list. Following the map will help you stay on the road, but it will always be you and only you walking the path.
So I can tell you a million times that it's good for to give things up, offer things up, discipline yourself against bad habits and reserve your harshest judgment for yourself, but if you decide certain things are okay for you to do because you can 'handle it', you may be in for a rude awakening.
I'll offer you this thought: whatever it is, if it's potentially sinful and you do it everyday, you may be on the wrong road. When does one beer everyday or a glass of wine become two, when does two become three? Are you sober after one? Are you sober after two? Why don't you want to be sober?
When I was first thinking this all over, I was thinking about the Baptists. As a child, I always thought it was kind of funny that the Baptists didn't allow drinking, card playing or dancing. Dancing? Really? Canasta? Come on.
Now I can make a strong case for all three. Not all dancing, certainly. But you see the problem we can have with dancing.
And before you laugh and say, "Yes! Nowadays! That dancing is sinful to watch, let alone, well, dance!", consider that when the waltz was invented it was scandalous because the man held the woman in his arms while they danced. That could lead to lust. Even today. Maybe those Baptists are onto something.
So before we move on to a couple of questions that have arisen from these thoughts, let me leave you with this important information. The reason some sins are called mortal sins is because they kill your soul. Small sins turn your attention from God to other things. Big sins cut you off from God altogether. But it isn't God turning away from you. It's you turning away from God. A mortal sin is when you turn away from God on purpose.
"Never!" you say. Really. Ask St. Peter about that.